How to Confront Weaponized Incompetence

In this video, Steph Stolzenbach, LCSW, breaks down what weaponized incompetence really looks like with 4 real-life scenarios. Whether it’s avoiding emotional labor, dodging housework, or stepping back from co-parenting, this passive form of manipulation creates emotional imbalance, resentment, and burnout. You’ll learn how to recognize it, how to respond, and how to start shifting the dynamic—without overexplaining or apologizing